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February 12, 2019 by Helena Trent Leave a Comment

Many people ask about my son, David, since I posted about him a few times. When we moved to Pittsburgh about 4 years ago, my dear friend, Phyllis, introduced me to Kumon. For those you who have not heard of Kumon, it’s an international franchise that teaches children math and reading outside of school environment.

While schools are all about academic achievements, Kumon is about developing inner strength for problem solving skills. Each day, the student is given a homework packet designed to teach them about a math concept. Unlike school or tutoring, it’s not about someone teaching you the concept, it’s about you learning from the problems. It’s hard for a kid as you can imagine facing problems they have not seen before and having to learn to solve it by trial.

Last night, he got upset and wanted to quit (like he has done numerous times before). This time though, having faced cancer and looked death in the eye myself, I have a new perspective on difficulties in life. Sure, it’s tempting to get rid of our problems by quitting, but it’s not the same as solving a problem. There are times in our lives, we find ourselves facing problems seemingly bigger than us and impossible to solve. What cancer taught me is if you slow down, take the impossible problem one step (one letter) at a time, give yourself a little twirl and a little space, the word impossible becomes “I’m Possible”. Kumon (or tai chi) training is like that problem-by-problem, step-by-step, day-by-day, we become a “I’m Possible” kind of person.

There are problems so big that we have trouble facing on our own, that’s when we ask for help. There is a solution to every problem we face even if we don’t know it yet. Together, we can help each other solve even the most difficult problems. That’s how we outgrow our problems in life and feel the support of the world. None of us is alone on this life journey.

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Life Goes On

October 7, 2018 by Helena Trent 8 Comments

When I first got my CT Scan results which was the first time I was alerted to the fact that I might have cancer, I couldn’t bring myself to tell my 14-year-old son. He has just started high school about a month ago. Things are going so well for him. On his own initiative, he took a summer geometry course at a local community college this past summer so he could take AP math in his senior year. He did well, already got his first A before school started. He enrolled himself in JROTC for their training. He is in the marching band, going to every football game on Friday nights. On top of all the school activities, he works part-time at Kumon one night a week and goes to his kung fu classes 3-4 times a week. He has a full life! I couldn’t bear the thought of crushing his young adult life with bad news! How do you tell your son you have cancer out of the blue?!

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Small Steps

October 6, 2018 by Helena Trent Leave a Comment

Thank you all for your suggestions on nausea! I am happy to report I have not vomited since that one time and I have eaten a couple of small meals. I still feel nauseous and dizzy sometimes, but as long as I keep my food down, I am a happy camper!

Pat brought over (along with dinner and other goodies) these Sea Band wrist bands. They work on pressure points on both wrists to control the nausea. Really works! That with some ginger tea and some really boring bland food makes the world so much brighter! 🙂

After spending two days in bed, I was upright for a bit here and there today. Feels good to be out of bed even though I can only shovel my feet around very slowly. I was going to try a tai chi set, but it took too much effort even to think about it. Maybe tomorrow.

Pat brought over Sea Band, ginger, and food, Katalin brought me alkaline water, then 3 angel friends showed up this afternoon with vacuum and mop. They made my house sparkling clean!!  Wow, the house finally has some resemblance of life rather than looking like a tornado disaster zone!! (yes, I know we have been hit with a disaster, and little things like cleaning is way down the priority list.) Brett said, let’s sell the house now, it will never be this clean again! lol!

I am so blessed by you all! I can’t thank all the friend enough both close by and far away to send me well wishes, love, and words of encouragement. I love you all so much!

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